May I have the courage

May I have the courage today

To live the life that I would love,

To postpone my dream no longer

But do at last what I came here for

And waste my heart on fear no more.

This morning, reflecting on the final stanza of John O’Donohue’s A Morning Offering, I reconnected with my purpose and aspirations. Living a life that I am passionate about presents challenges due to my entrenched work habits that have contributed to my success—goal-setting, persistence, and structuring. It is noteworthy that even after four years, my mind's default mode remains work-oriented.

Nevertheless, I acknowledge the progress made in my semi-retirement. I have learned to apply my strengths more moderately and to approach matters with a lighter touch. I integrate my work-oriented mindset and strengths into a more relaxed existence. The need to validate myself or achieve success is no longer prevalent. I experience the freedom to to choose how I live and work.

My ideal day offers a meaningful blend of being and doing. I engage in work that brings me joy. My work habits are well-suited for organizing my work tasks, household responsibilities, and travel arrangements. I am still learning to linger in moments of spontaneity delight that enriches my life: walking with friends, watching the cardinals hop around in the dogwood blooms, hugging my dogs, being curious, relaxing with a cup of tea, dabbling in art, helping a neighbor with a chore, and daydreaming.

Before you address the daily courage question, consider clarifying your dreams and purpose. What constitutes the life you love? Which dreams have you postponed? What are you here for? What fears undermine your dreams? Where are you in your retirement transition? What aspects remain unclear? If support is needed to create a fulfilling encore chapter, I am available to assist.

P.S. – What resonates with you in John O’Donohue’s A Morning Offering poem?